Dear Single ladies, valentine is tomorrow, where are your boyfriends? oh, you don’t have? I thought so too and I decided to compile five legit places where you can find potential Mr. Right that are serious and eligible too.
If you apply this, you will send us a wedding IV soon, can I get an amen?
Go join a gym
This is quite dicey o, look at gyms with potentials, dont go and join a gym in an obscure part of town, you will meet men, but you might not like the type.
Most of the young men in Lagos are fitness conscious and they wish to spend quality time at the gym. Basically, you’d be killing two birds with one stone: you get to exercise your body, get your blood flowing, and also create opportunities to run into the love of your life!
Most of the young men you’ll meet at the gym would be attractive and responsive as their presence at the gym already shows that they value their health. And do not forget to go for an attractive sports gear as opposed to the normal sweat pants and T-shirt, you heard that right!
Don’t dull yourself; Attend owanbes on fleek
Anyone who lives in Lagos can attest to the very fact that weddings are the easiest places to mingle with single guys. Forget the lewd assumption that single men at weddings just wanna get laid, if you simmer that in mind, you’ll not make progress. Most of the young men actually attend weddings to meet women who leap out for the bouquet when the bride throws it to the gang, that way they know they already stand a chance.
Do not deny any invitation to a marriage ceremony, especially when it’s a friend or close acquaintance. Just ensure your dress is on fleek, keep a smile and look approachable, dance like your life depends on it, and of course, fight for that bouquet when you see it high up in the air.
Travel Tour Groups;
There has been an increase in the number of tour groups now and the number keeps increasing. You can decide to go on a trip as a single and meet other single people. It tends to be fun as you get to interact with new people. Just like how a well-liked celebrity went on a tour to Olumo and she or he met her potential bae. They wouldn’t have met if she hadn’t gone on the trip. So, pack your bags and go on that trip you’ve been postponing.
Take a stroll at a private beach
Put meeting the perfect single guy on the side, visiting the private beaches or resorts in Lagos can be a rewarding experience on its own. From La Campagne Tropicana to Kampe Ikare, Atican beach or just Oniru beach, there are boundless opportunities to run into eligible men.
There are basically three kinds of guys you will see at the beach: those who are there alone, those with their group of male friends (their behavior will mark them out as single) and those who visit with their baes, girlfriends or wives. The first two are your best bet. Do not feel too shy to approach them and strike up a conversation…most love stories begin with a few rods spoken.
Go to church
Rather than sit in your house on a Sunday while visiting, why not get up, get dressed and head out to church? You never know who you would meet and what better way to meet a quality single guy than coming across him in the presence of the lord? There is none better than a man who has a high regard for God and stays committed to his religion. There is a higher chance of things working out with him, as most of the single men in church are in search of opportunities for serious relationships. The bonus is that you get to meet someone who shares the same faith and moral grounding as well. Luckily, there are a number of churches around Lagos that you visit.
Make your location visible online
A lot of people in Lagos meet their boyfriends and husbands online via social media apps like Instagram, Facebook or Snapchat Instamessage. In fact, this is the latest method of meeting single men in the city. Social media apps give users opportunities to find others with similar interests close to them. And so, unless your location is visible it might be difficult for guys in the area to see you and hit you up. Make your location visible the moment your feet touch the shores of Lagos and stay online.
If you do not have accounts on any of the social media platforms, search for online dating sites, there are some exclusive to Nigeria and even Lagos. You can check out profiles and photographs and connect with whoever appeals to you.